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Relating is a fundamental aspect of life. It is archetypal. It
permeates the basic structure not only of the human psyche, but
of the universe in its entirety. Close relationships test the
soul and character of individuals, but in such testings,
character is developed and refined. A well integrated personality
achieves the happy balance between selfish individualism and
supine compliance to the will of others. He will develop
self-reliance, independence of thought, initiative and
self-confidence while also recognizing the interdependence of
people in a society. He will respect the rights of others.
The ability to get
along with others is a wonderful and necessary asset. It plays an
important part toward our happiness and success. Through personal
awareness and basic understanding, we realize our strengths and
weaknesses. Once achieved, we are able to show recognition and
tolerance towards other peoples'.
Astrology can
determine if your present or future relationships will be
stressful or harmonious by comparing the aspects of a person's
horoscope with yours. Through careful analytical observation of
the astrological aspects, I will make you aware of the weaknesses
and strengths of all your relationships: business, love,
marriage, parents, siblings, relatives, friends, and children.
It will then be
your decision as how much effort and perseverance you are willing
to commit to your relationships to enable you to resolve the
problems and differences and make your relationships 'work' . . . or end them. The decision is yours.
I recently published a novel that focused on different relationships within a certain family's labyrinth . . .
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remember feeling trapped in some
inescapable place while everyone danced around me and I remained
motionless. My existence had to be flawed in some subtle but essential
way. Why else would life be so unyielding to my happiness? Maybe the gods
had decided they didn’t know what to do with me and had taken a pause.
Or maybe it was the calm before the storm - before they let me have it.
What? I don’t know. It wasn’t that anything was terribly wrong or I
had committed some heinous crime. It was just a sense of hopelessness and
not being able to orchestrate my life towards achieving my expectations. I
didn’t understand why I felt so lost. And then I had a minor
breakthrough. It must have been that silly fortune cookie I read the other
day. Somehow, it triggered a nerve.
I’m a flexible thinker. I’ve done my share of trying to understand my life. I’ve even entertained the concept that we’re all connected, existing within a complex structure of connecting passages; an intricate woven fabric of time and space and that no one knew who was connected to whom or when and where their paths would meet. Sometimes, at the ‘eleventh hour’ when all seemed hopeless, the gods might throw someone or something your way to offer you safe passage. And, supposedly, there aren’t any coincidences. I don’t live this adage on a daily basis and hadn’t given it much thought nor was I truly convinced of its validity until recently. I never suspected a family wedding I had been invited to would affect so many lives . . . especially mine. What should I tell you? It all began a few months ago . . . . Available on AMAZON.COM |
Astrology offers a 'compatibility chart' to
determine how well two people interact according to their planetary
energies. These energies reflect temperament, emotions, will,
understanding, communication, etc. Many times people are attracted to each
other physically but do not know how to communicate effectively and
harmoniously. Or, temperaments and mood swings get in the way of the
relationship. You may gain insight into all of the important facets
of your relationships working with the comparison chart.
I offer relationship counseling based on my psychological
training and my expertise in astrological chart analysis.
