We must admit that what is closest to us is the very
thing we know least about, although it seems to be
what we know best of all.

C.G. Jung


Relating is a fundamental aspect of life. It is archetypal. It permeates the basic structure not only of the human psyche, but of the universe in its entirety. Close relationships test the soul and character of individuals, but in such testings, character is developed and refined. A well integrated personality achieves the happy balance between selfish individualism and supine compliance to the will of others. He will develop self-reliance, independence of thought, initiative and self-confidence while also recognizing the interdependence of people in a society. He will respect the rights of others.

The ability to get along with others is a wonderful and necessary asset. It plays an important part toward our happiness and success. Through personal awareness and basic understanding, we realize our strengths and weaknesses. Once achieved, we are able to show recognition and tolerance towards other peoples'.

Astrology can determine if your present or future relationships will be stressful or harmonious by comparing the aspects of a person's horoscope with yours. Through careful analytical observation of the astrological aspects, I will make you aware of the weaknesses and strengths of all your relationships: business, love, marriage, parents, siblings, relatives, friends, and children.

It will then be your decision as how much effort and perseverance you are willing to commit to your relationships to enable you to resolve the problems and differences and make your relationships 'work' . . . or end them. The decision is yours.

I recently published a novel that focused on different relationships within a certain family's labyrinth . . .

 

 

I remember feeling trapped in some inescapable place while everyone danced around me and I remained motionless. My existence had to be flawed in some subtle but essential way. Why else would life be so unyielding to my happiness? Maybe the gods had decided they didnít know what to do with me and had taken a pause. Or maybe it was the calm before the storm - before they let me have it. What? I donít know. It wasnít that anything was terribly wrong or I had committed some heinous crime. It was just a sense of hopelessness and not being able to orchestrate my life towards achieving my expectations. I didnít understand why I felt so lost. And then I had a minor breakthrough. It must have been that silly fortune cookie I read the other day. Somehow, it triggered a nerve.

Iím a flexible thinker. Iíve done my share of trying to understand my life. Iíve even entertained the concept that weíre all connected, existing within a complex structure of connecting passages; an intricate woven fabric of time and space and that no one knew who was connected to whom or when and where their paths would meet. Sometimes, at the Ďeleventh hourí when all seemed hopeless, the gods might throw someone or something your way to offer you safe passage. And, supposedly, there arenít any coincidences.

I donít live this adage on a daily basis and hadnít given it much thought nor was I truly convinced of its validity until recently. I never suspected a family wedding I had been invited to would affect so many lives . . . especially mine. What should I tell you? It all began a few months ago . . . .

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Astrology offers a 'compatibility chart' to determine how well two people interact according to their planetary energies.  These energies reflect temperament, emotions, will, understanding, communication, etc.  Many times people are attracted to each other physically but do not know how to communicate effectively and harmoniously.  Or, temperaments and mood swings get in the way of the relationship.   You may gain insight into all of the important facets of your relationships working with the comparison chart.


I offer relationship counseling based on my psychological training and my expertise in astrological chart analysis.